A test: Are you loving or unloving?

Here’s a quick and simple six-question test to see if you’re loving or unloving.

a-coffee-cup.jpg 1). You’re sitting in a coffee shop when a woman at another table gets up–leaving her coffee unattended–to get a napkin. As she does, a man walk by her table, drops some pills into the woman’s coffee, and quickly exits the shop. You immediately warn this woman of what just happened. This is:

A. Loving

B. Unloving. This is none of your business. Quit interfering with other people’s lives.

a-rattler.jpg 2). A small child runs toward a bush to retrieve his ball that rolled into it. You know that the bush contains a rattlesnake nest. You yell out for the kid to stop! This is:

A. Loving

B. Unloving. Who are you to impose your “beliefs,” “values,” and “morals” onto this kid. His parents have a right to raise him how they see fit without your close-minded views being forced down his throat.

a-fire-alarm.jpg 3). You are woken to the sounds of fire alarms and the smell of smoke in your apartment complex. As you hastily exit your apartment, you notice that no one has alerted your neighbors who are elderly and very hard of hearing. You bang on their door (and even kick it in if necessary) to alert them of the pending doom. This is:

A. Loving.

B. Unloving. Have you considered that perhaps this couple is happy where they are? Why wake them from their slumber? If they’re happy, then leave them be.

a-bridge-out.jpg 4). On a dark and rainy night you observe a family in a car heading home in the direction of a washed-out bridge. You holler and flail your arms–making every effort you can–to get their attention to warn them. This is:

A. Loving

B. Unloving. All roads lead to their house. Who are you to tell them that the way they’ve chosen is wrong?

a-leggo-bank-robber.jpg 5). While sitting in your car waiting for a friend who’s in a bank, you observe a man walk into the bank holding a shotgun and wearing a ski mask. You call 911. This is:

A. Loving

B. Unloving. “Judge not lest ye be judged!” Who are you to judge this man’s heart. Maybe his intentions are good and he will do no harm to those inside. You’re always so negative and have no faith in other people. You’ve condemned this man already. Jesus would have never done that, He would have befriended him. You need to be more like Jesus.

judgment-day.jpg 6). Your friend, neighbor, coworker, local cultist, etc. is going to die in his sins and find himself in Hell for eternity. You share the fact that their sins will condemn them before a holy and just God and that we deserve His very wrath because we’ve transgressed His laws. You further explain that any of his attempts to purchase God’s forgiveness by his own obedience to the Law or good works is futile because not only are we are saved by faith–apart from the works and the Law–but His grace is a gift. You share with them that God has provided grace, mercy, and unmerited favor, but his is only found in His Son, Jesus Christ who ransomed us with His own blood. You tell him that Jesus became a propitiation for sinful mankind to absorb the wrath of God that we rightly deserve. You urge him to repent; putting his trust in Jesus Christ alone for salvation. This is:

A. Loving.

B. Unloving. Insert any or a combination of all the other “B” answers from above here: _____.

7 Responses to “A test: Are you loving or unloving?”

  1. Christos Says:

    Loving:-)

  2. doreen Says:

    I failed the test. I’m unloving. Truth, even if it hurts, and will hurt, needs to be told. How the individual takes it is up to them.

    The apostle Paul asks, “Have I therefore become your emeny because I tell you the truth?”, Gal 4v16.

    Enemies lie to you, as satan does for he is a liar and the father of lies. If we do not tell the truth to people, their blood is on our hands, and it will cost us also, Ezekiel 3.

    God bless

  3. Pilgrim Says:

    Yes, Doreen. I couldn’t agree more.

    And I have certainly become an “enemy” of many with this blog.

  4. Joe M Says:

    you’re not anyone’s “enemy”, but you do tick a lot of people off…
    don’t be so surprized that people might get mad considering the things you say.

  5. doreen Says:

    John 15v18, ‘If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you’

    Verse 23 says, ‘He who hates Me hates My Father also’.

    Those who profess to know Christ, and can spew undeserved venom at another Christian, does not, and cannot, belong to the body of Christ.

    I cannot understand why non-Christians or seeker-’Christians’ etc would want to visit a godfearing website. It’s not for them, so why visit it?

    I don’t visit non-Christian websites. They have nothing of value or worth to view.
    I might look at the news online, but apart from that, that’s it.

    Onward Christian soldiers!

    God bless.

  6. LumpyMeatLoaf Says:

    Greetings,

    Joe, I normally don’t say anything negative with disrespect, but you are wrong on several accounts. Sure, Pilgrim makes some upset, especially those without ears and a heart for God. Joe, usually what Pilgrim says, he can back up with scripture. Also, depending what one’s perspective is usually emulates and depicts their belief. Godly, people see godly scripture in one light, whereas the children of Satan let us say view it in a different way.

    Jesus is Lord

  7. LumpyMeatLoaf Says:

    Greetings Doreen,

    You said, “I cannot understand why non-Christians or seeker-’Christians’ etc would want to visit a god-fearing website. It’s not for them, so why visit it?”

    Doreen, two main reasons for this; first, misery enjoys company, so look who their boss is, enough said here! Secondly, their hearts are lacking the fulfillment from God, and so they want to see how the children of God live. Therefore, like bugs being drawn to a porch light, they visit these sites; mainly wanting to fulfill their emptiness and while trying to justify their anger, sin and rebellion. Being regenerated you have no need for evilness of Satan, but all men have a need for God. This is why the unsaved get mad at godly people that try to help, but they can’t attack God, but like Satan, their father, they can attack the regenerated.

    Jesus is Lord

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